?Ello ? Vee ? E? asked:


I know this guy that met a woman, and is now dating her because she pays his phone bill, buys him things like jewelry, clothing, etc. She has kids, and even tells him how she receives child support from their father and is going to do nice things for him with the money. The kids don't seem like their basic needs aren't being met, but isn't that some BS?

Anyways, there were some people talking down on him because of it... But women do it ALL the time. I personally don't think much of men or women who do those things, but if someone's stupid enough to do those things... I can see why they'd take advantage of it.

(I should probably add that the women is easily over 400lbs, and probably has trouble finding ANYONE that will give her the time of day... Or even some affection. Maybe she's desperate.)

BQ: What do you think of women that use their child support money on other things BESIDES their children?
Why is it that a man who uses a woman for her money is judged more harshly than women that uses a man for his money?

Jeez... IDK why I asked this question so horribly!!
Gumdrops - I get what you're saying, and I agree... But I clearly stated that she told the guy she receives child support and will treat him to nice things whenever she receives the money...

I have a problem with that. Yes the children's basic needs are being met, but I think it's a bit warped that she'll spend that money on a guy.

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Jojo asked:


I think it's really unfair that Hanna Beth makes cheap jewellery with the e-famous LoveBites and Bruises and then resells them to her "fans" for $100 or more!

http://www.lovebitesandbruises.com

People should be more aware that companies like LoveBites and Bruises exist, where you can make your own jewelry for a few dollars. This is basically what all the scene kids on Myspace etc. do to make money.

Do you think it's far that people exploit their fans like this?

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luckytacs asked:


I only have a couple of allergies, and they're pretty mild, so it was kind of "trial and error" for me - I took penicillin, got hives on my hands, never took it again. I wore nickel earrings, the piercings got irritated, I don't wear nickel jewelry anymore.
But what about kids who are severely allergic to something - to the point, or almost to the point, of death? Look at all the severe peanut allergies. DO they have it when they're young, and it's just not as severe then or something? How do you find out?
I asked this in parenting because it's pretty well guaranteed that at least one parent on here will know the answer to this.
Thanks!

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2littleboys asked:


He won't let me wear makeup, have a TV, listen to music when the kids are with me, wear ANY jewelry besides my wedding ring, wear nail polish, go to movies...etc. The thing is, I know he loves me, but he honestly believes each of those things is sin-it's how he was raised. I made sure and asked him about each of those before we were married, and he said he didn't have a problem with ANY of them...we've been married almost 3 years now, and I've noticed that one after the other has gone out the door...WHY?! He actually said something the other day about taking out the internet:S If it wasn't for my kids, I'd leave...but I seriously believe divorce is worse for the kids then me dealing with this. Anybody else been in the same situation? Any advice?!!

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<3 Is It You <3 asked:


Ok,My husband and I have been going really good...2 years next month...When he and I separated for about a week last year we were still seeing each other and talking alot.We separated to see if a break would help our relationship, we kinda were arguing alot.Anyway, This one girl who works at the same area as him thought we were over for good, so she tried to be nice and close to me. She would invite me over to her house alot and always check up on what I was doing. Well, she actually had the nerve tot ell me she liked my husband. Which was massively stupid of her because Number 1, He is with me and she knew that. Number 2, They are 2nd cousins.I know creepy. But she still had no idea that my husband and I were together.She even tried as hard as she could to get with him,he was telling me about how much she was trying.lol.kinda funny.But after she told me that she liked him, he and i kept our distance from her and she noticed that. she didnt like it, i knew because she was texting my husband telling him that she still wants to be friends, and then she would text me and tell me the same thing. But after a while, my husband started hearing things at work, that this girl was saying he was talking SH*T about her. So he told me and asked if i heard anything. I told him NO. But this girl kept making up things and it would all get to my husband. So i finally confronted her about it and she was insisting that she just wanted to have him in her life as a friend since she cant have him as anything else. I am cool with them being friends, but he wont do it because he thinks she creeped him out. lol. Well, a week ago, I got an anonymous message saying that my husband has been cheating on me behind my back with girls at work. And that my engagement ring came form him stealing jewelry. Which is pathetic cause my husband and I went together to get my ring. He has a well paying job that does help pay bills and get us and our 2 kids by. Well, This anonymous letter really irritated me, and so i confronted my husband and he took it as a joke, but when he saw how upset I was he got mad. He took the letter with him to work(according to him) and showed it to his female co-workers to see who wrote it, because he knows the female co-workers will find out faster than the men would, since this letter was written by a woman(according to its sayings). Well, I was upset because I started to suspect my husband was cheating on me and it hurt to think that. But he kept telling me he never did. I mean, he stays home all the time, doesnt go out unless im with him. He only goes to work and home and comes back on time everyday. He has been honest with me (from what i know)...But i wanna know...Could he be cheating? Does it sound like he is? Have any of you other women been through this? Have any of you men been through this? Please help me...This insecurity is ruining my marriage...I cant look at him the same way...Even getting intimate is getting hard...I need advice...Thank You so much in advance to all of you.
EDIT: Thank You all so much...This helps alot...The clues are there...I just told him he can be friends with her casue I didnt wanna sound like a freak girlfriend. He doesnt talk to her, according to him and his co-workers...They tell me alot...hehe...my spies...We switch cell phones alot so I know it cant be happening...The bill has nothing much on it but our numbers and family numbers...

Oh! and we took a break because I kinda needed some space. I felt kind of tied up with work and the kids...Felt like I couldnt provide much time for him. He wanted me back, promised we can make it work, and it did. Now we all spend alot of time as a family...

Again...Thank YOU!!!

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willow marie asked:


i dont want anything flashy. its way out of my budget(im the one paying for our kid's tuition). i've already given him jewelries & perfumes before(when our kid was still small). i want something different, simple, less expensive yet meaningful & romantic. i'm open to something creative because i'm the artistic type. i'm done with the card thing or writing poems because i've done it before last year & during our anniversary. l'd like to bake something for him too but i don't know what is it. any suggestions?

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OMFG? asked:


say your 13 and its a jewelry store like Claire's
this didnt happen but im just wondering

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Grace Z asked:


shop.nordstrom.com/S/2995116

it's a black and white checked jacket. what should i wear with it (shoes, top, bottoms, jewelry, handbags)

yes i kno the jacket is made for kids, but i am kind of petite....:P

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candace b asked:


50 girls all together but cybering with about 5. He's telling them that he's leaving me and that if he hadn't gotten deployed he would have divorced me already. He's cheated on me twice before he left too. Now I don't know what to do because he's telling me the exact opposite. He sends me money every month and sends me jewelry and pictures and stuff. But i've had a few girls message me calling me nasty names and I don't know what to do. Divorce isn't and option for me but I don't know if this is something that has to do with what he's going through over there or if he's just a jerk. He always tells me that he's afraid I'm cheating or leaving him all the time because the military has such a high divorce rate and he says he talks to them to block out how much it hurts to be with me. He said he's not doing it anymore and that he never meant to hurt me. We have four kids and I kind of feel like he's just using me because of the kids. Any advice will help.
well, in response to some of the answers, i know for a fact he is cybering, he gave me the passwords to all his accounts. and i know that even though he's in the desert he can cyber because he does it with me. no i didn't marry him for his money i get enough money to live on and the rest of it goes into an account that i don't have access to. and yes it is a real question, it's been bothering me since i found out, i don't degrade military men at all. i'm proud of my husband. he does a lot more than i could ever do. everything i own and wear is patriotic. my car, my house, my cloths, even my hair bows are patriotic. so no i'm not looking for attention, i'm looking for advice on how to make it through until this deployment is over so we can even try to work through this. i do see a counselor that the military set me up with and he usually says "i don't know what to say about that" and that's why i'm on here looking for advice.

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